If your mother ignores you should you still send her a mothers day card when your the one having to live with

her dad? He will get so angry if I don't. Still my choice right?

If your mother ignores you should you still send her a mothers day card when your the one having to live with
i would because that would show her your the bigger person.and make you feel better.but yes its your choice at the end of the day i would think about it first.
Reply:Send it to her anyway. You only have one mother whether she was good, bad, or indifferent. Just send it.
Reply:I would say that you should only send her a card if you choose to do so. And I don't see why your grandfather (if I am reading this right) should get mad as he is raising you and she isn't.





I would get him a card, like a thank you or something, for being there for you when you need him.
Reply:Send her a generic card...You will feel better then.





My father was the same way for many years...after he divorced my mom. I still sent him a fathers day card and birthday card every year.
Reply:WHAT EVER REASON YOU HAVE FOR LIVING WITH HER DAD IS NOT IMPORTANDT AT LESS NOT TO GOD SHOW HER A LIL GRACE AND SEND THE CARD IT IS YOUR CHOICE BUT BE THE BETTER PERSON SOME MOMS JUST HAVE PROMBLES AND ITS NOT CAUSE THEY DONT CARE ABOUT THIER KIDS ITS BC THEY HAVE TROULBES WITH LIFE IT SELF SO MAYB YOUR CARD WILL GIVE HER A REASON TO THINK EVEN IF SHE IS SELFISH YOU DONT B THAT WHY YOU DONT WANT TO B LIKE HER SHOW THE KIND OF LOVE THAT COMES FROM GOD ABOVE AND SEND A LIL CARD YOU WILL FILL BETTER IF YOU DO
Reply:let me ask you this





would you want your daughter to send you a card if you guys were fighting??


I mean if anything ever happend to where you were having a hard time with your kids when you have some and they didn't send you a mother's day card or birthday card?


Maybe sending her one will make her relize what a wonerful daughter you are and she will come around


if not that is yout choice no one can make that choice for you


good luck
Reply:Your choice, yes, but put your foot in her shoes. She was the one that brought you into this world -- you owe her "at least" a card to acknowledge that fact. She deserves that one iota of respect no matter how cruel and unjust she was to you when growing up or even more recently (picture the cruel stepmother of Cinderella). Remember, people can change their behavior, but they can't change who they are %26amp; where they came from.
Reply:Yes you should. It doesn't have to be a really sentimental card. Just something that says Happy Mother's Day, I love you. Which I'm sure you do.
Reply:She still is your mother .
Reply:that depends on what you mean by ignoring? dont you have any contact with your mom? If you do...you could send a greeting card reminding her that she's a mom. be kind.


it will make you feel good too.
Reply:It will create less stress on you and others if you just find a generic card and give it to her. It doesn't have to say much of anything and then you aren't in trouble with anyone. You might be upset in having to "play the game," but in the long run it takes much less energy to walk the high ground.
Reply:Still your choice. It is hard to fathom someone holding a grudge against his/her mother.
Reply:Hey... She is your mother after all......


and the ONLY mother that you will ever have....





Be nice,,,, just do the right thing.. you will be happy..





take care..