Can i send b day cards and xmas cards to my grandchildren,there mother claims harrassment,if i do so.?

If there is no restraining order, you can send them.





She will likely withhold them from the kids, though.





It is unfortunate that whatever caused this rif between you and their mother is punishing the kids.

Can i send b day cards and xmas cards to my grandchildren,there mother claims harrassment,if i do so.?
Unless she has an injunction or restraining order against you, or unless you've already been cautioned for it, you can send them.
Reply:Unless you are under a no contact court order, I don't see anything she can do. Make sure anything you write on the card cannot be considered harrassment.
Reply:Well, what do you write in them? If it is anything instigating and provoking a problem, I agree that is harassment.





Keep it nice and sweet and you'll get more with honey than with acid.
Reply:why not?
Reply:horrible situation to be in. I have a friend who is not allowed to see her grandchildren she gets cards photos and writes them letters and keeps it all in a box that she will give them when they are 16.
Reply:yes
Reply:Who cares? That's insane. Do what you want.





I cannot see why a b day card and an xmas card would be offensive. Call me crazy but... I think that's a really nice, kind, thoughtful, etc. thing to do. I'm sure your grandchildren will appreciate it. I'd like to think they do. But I don't know about kids these days. I'd like to meet some good ones.