Question T\to gays that adopt a child. To whom will the child give a mothers day gift to? Epically if the?

adopters are both male. How would this make a child feel on mothers day? Who does he or she give a mothers day card/gift to?

Question T\to gays that adopt a child. To whom will the child give a mothers day gift to? Epically if the?
If the child's parents are both men, then a "Mother's Day" gift would be inappropriate...unless it's a family tradition the child has initiated.





My son, although not adopted by my partner, does give a "Father's Day" gift to my partner...but he calls it a "Step-parent's Day" gift.
Reply:My father died when I was four and I never had a stepfather. I gave my father's day gift to my grandfather. A child in the scenario you mention could do likewise, or give one to any other female they wanted to, if they felt they wanted to do that.


There is never any guarantee that a child is going to have two parents, much less two different-sex parents. Should my mother have been forced to remarry so I didn't have to feel left out on father's day? Maybe father's and mother's day should be abolished so no child ever has to feel left out. You can show appreciation for the people you love without government-created holidays that probably exist for no reason other than to sell greeting cards and other merchandise.
Reply:Well the child wouldn't, the child would give the 2 male parents gifts on father's day.





To say they're lacking something is foolish, just because they don't engage in this commercial holiday. If you judge them, as you imply they'll somehow feel bad, then how do you judge people who's mothers have died?





The child also has another option, to give a gift to his/her grandmother.





Even if you argue that the child is missing something, the child would have a doubly fun father's day to make up for it.
Reply:Epically? Why can noone spell on here?! I don't see how this would be any different to a divorced/widowed male/female raising kids on their own - they wouldn't celebrate the day of the parent who is absent either. Why does it matter neway? They can just have double the fun on Father's Day.

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