Monday, May 11, 2009

Name on Mothers day card: Transsexual.?

Hay I need some opinions: should I pit my nasty old Male name on my Mother’s Day (which is tomorrow if any one who is celebrating and forgot) card or my nice new Girl name? It is a group card me and my brother (he knows about me) what name do I put down?

Name on Mothers day card: Transsexual.?
Which ever one you feel most comfortable with. :)





Sorry about all the trolls. Ugh.
Reply:How long has it been since you transitioned? Does your mother know? what name does she call you now?


I guess all that would depend on what you put on the card.


My mother didnt speak to me for 3 and a half years once I announced I was transitioning from female to male. She is speaking to me now, but it took her a long time to use my new name. Its still hard for her sometimes but she has made the effort and I appreciate that.





Dont push too soon if you havent transitioned that long. It takes a long time for us to get used to our children changing- I am trans but if one of my kids did it Ive no doubt Id find it hard just like my own mother.
Reply:yes, does your mother know? is she comfortable using your proper name?





I recived and gave mothers day gifts, using my name, I legally changed it a while ago.. it's not legal for me to use the name I was given at birth.


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