Would you still send her a mothers day card?

my mum and i had a massive row the other day resulting in both of us hurling horrible insults at each other, its not the first time it's happened an its always my mother who starts it by putting me down all the time like im a child when im 28 with 2 kids nearly, i feel sad as we just dont get on, shoudl i still send her a card even tho she said she doensn't want anythin form me??

Would you still send her a mothers day card?
I would. My mother died when I was 19 and even though I did not always agree with her, and some things she did were downright abusive, I still wish she was here. You never know when she might be gone. If you give her the card then at least you will have done all you can do to mend fences and say I love you.
Reply:My mother and I fight all the time. She always tells me that I don't know what I am talking about even if she doesn't know what she is talking about. It is ridiculous. But she is my mother and even though we fight every time we see each other, I still love her. I couldn't imagine not getting her a card at least for mother's day. Even if she says she doesn't want anything she would probably feel a lot better with one sent to her.
Reply:yes, kill her with kindness, and always remember she is the only mother you will ever have.
Reply:you admit it's both of you.


she says she doesn't want anything from you, but sense i'm a mom, I suspect in her heart, she always will want something.


It's up to you and how you feel when your walking by the Mothers Day cards. If your heart isn't going pitter-patter then you know you won't be buying one.